Parent and child sitting together at a laptop reviewing online safety and privacy settings

Digital Security for Parents: How to Protect Your Kids’ Personal Data Online

Fact-checked by the digital reach solutions editorial team

Quick Answer

Digital security for parents means actively protecting children’s personal data from breaches, predators, and data brokers. In July 2025, the risks are significant: 1 in 3 children has experienced a data breach, and the average cost of a child identity theft case takes over 165 hours to resolve. Use parental controls, strong authentication, and privacy settings across every device your child uses.

Digital security for parents is no longer optional — it is the baseline requirement for raising kids in a connected world. According to the FTC’s COPPA compliance guidance, children under 13 have federally protected data rights, yet those rights are routinely undermined by apps, games, and platforms that collect far more data than parents realize.

The threat landscape has expanded sharply in 2025. From AI-generated phishing to data broker profiles built on children’s school records, the attack surface targeting minors is broader than ever before.

What Data Are Children Unknowingly Exposing Online?

Children expose a surprising range of personal data every time they go online — and most of it happens without any deliberate action on their part. Every app download, game account, or school platform login creates a data trail that includes names, birthdates, locations, and device identifiers.

The categories of data most at risk include:

  • Full legal name and date of birth (used to open fraudulent credit lines)
  • Home address (collected by apps that request location permissions)
  • School name and grade level (shared via educational platforms)
  • Biometric data (used in some gaming platforms and school security systems)
  • Photos and videos (frequently harvested by social apps for ad targeting)

Data brokers are a particularly underappreciated threat. Companies like Acxiom and LexisNexis build profiles on individuals of all ages, often sourcing data from public records, loyalty programs, and third-party app developers. A child’s profile can be assembled and sold before they ever create a social media account.

Understanding your child’s digital footprint is the essential first step. Our guide on common data breach mistakes and how to fix them walks through what to do if your child’s data has already been compromised.

Key Takeaway: Children expose names, locations, and biometric data through everyday app use. COPPA regulations protect children under 13, but enforcement gaps mean parents must audit every platform their child uses independently.

How Do Parental Controls Actually Protect Kids’ Data?

Parental controls reduce data exposure by limiting what apps can access, blocking inappropriate content, and giving parents visibility into online activity. They are the most accessible layer of digital security for parents managing multiple devices and platforms.

Both iOS and Android offer native screen time and permission management tools. Apple’s Screen Time allows parents to restrict app downloads, block explicit content, and limit location sharing to specific apps. Google’s Family Link provides similar controls for Android and Chromebook users, including the ability to approve app installs before they reach the device.

Platform-Specific Controls Worth Enabling

Beyond device-level controls, each major platform offers its own privacy settings. YouTube Kids allows content filtering by age group and disables search entirely for younger children. Roblox offers account restrictions that prevent chat with strangers. TikTok‘s Family Pairing feature lets parents link their account to their child’s and control screen time and direct messages directly.

If you want a deeper walkthrough of the built-in tools already on your child’s phone, our article on how to start using your phone’s built-in screen time tools covers the setup process step by step.

Key Takeaway: Native tools like Apple Screen Time and Google Family Link give parents control over app permissions and downloads at no cost. Enabling location permission restrictions alone can eliminate a major data exposure vector — start with Google Family Link’s setup guide for Android households.

What Are the Biggest Online Threats to Children’s Personal Data?

The three primary threats to children’s data in 2025 are phishing attacks targeting minors, predatory data collection by apps, and child identity theft. Each operates differently and requires a different defensive response.

Phishing attacks directed at children have become increasingly sophisticated. Attackers now impersonate gaming platforms like Steam and Epic Games, sending fake prize notifications or account alerts designed to harvest login credentials. According to the FBI’s 2023 Internet Crime Report, phishing remains the most reported cybercrime type across all age groups, with minors increasingly targeted through gaming and social media channels.

Child identity theft is uniquely damaging because it often goes undetected for years. A child’s clean Social Security Number is valuable precisely because no one monitors it for fraudulent activity. The Identity Theft Resource Center reports that child identity theft victims frequently don’t discover the crime until they apply for their first credit card or student loan.

“Children are ideal identity theft targets because their credit histories are blank slates. A stolen SSN can be used for a decade before anyone notices — and the cleanup process is far more complex than for adult victims.”

— Eva Velasquez, President and CEO, Identity Theft Resource Center

Teaching children to recognize phishing attempts is a core skill. Our breakdown of what changed in phishing attacks this year explains the newest tactics being used in 2025 and how to identify them before clicking.

Key Takeaway: Child identity theft can go undetected for 10+ years because minors don’t have active credit monitoring. The FTC’s identity theft recovery steps apply to minors — parents should freeze their child’s credit proactively, not reactively.

Threat Type Common Attack Vector Recommended Defense
Phishing Fake gaming or social media alerts via email or DM Teach link verification; enable 2FA on all accounts
Child Identity Theft SSN used to open credit lines, file tax returns Place a credit freeze at all 3 bureaus (Equifax, Experian, TransUnion)
Data Broker Profiling App data, school records, public databases Submit opt-out requests to major brokers annually
App Overpermissioning Games and apps requesting location, contacts, microphone Audit app permissions monthly; revoke unnecessary access
Social Engineering Strangers in game chats or forums extracting personal details Enable private messaging restrictions on all gaming platforms

How Should Parents Secure Accounts and Devices Used by Kids?

Device and account security is the most direct form of digital security for parents. Every device a child uses should have strong authentication, automatic updates enabled, and restricted installation privileges.

Start with two-factor authentication (2FA) on every account tied to a child’s email address or linked to family payment methods. According to Google’s security research, enabling 2FA blocks 99.9% of automated account takeover attacks. This single step is the most impactful action any parent can take in under five minutes.

Password and Authentication Best Practices

Children’s accounts frequently use weak, reused passwords — often the family pet’s name or a favorite game character. A password manager like Bitwarden or 1Password generates and stores unique credentials for every account, eliminating the reuse problem entirely.

For a complete walkthrough of setting up stronger authentication, our guide on how to set up two-factor authentication for the first time covers every major platform in plain language. Additionally, passkeys vs. passwords explains why passkeys are now the stronger option for accounts that support them.

Automatic software updates matter just as much as strong passwords. Unpatched operating systems and apps are the primary entry point for malware. Set all family devices to update automatically — no exceptions.

Key Takeaway: Two-factor authentication blocks 99.9% of automated account attacks, per Google’s own security data. Every child’s account — especially gaming, email, and school logins — should have 2FA enabled before any other security measure is considered.

How Can Parents Monitor and Limit Their Child’s Digital Footprint?

Reducing a child’s digital footprint requires both active monitoring and deliberate minimization — removing data that has already been collected and preventing future exposure. Digital security for parents is an ongoing practice, not a one-time setup.

The most underused tool available to parents is the children’s credit freeze. All three major credit bureaus — Equifax, Experian, and TransUnion — allow parents to freeze a minor child’s credit file at no cost. This prevents anyone from opening credit accounts using a child’s Social Security Number, even if the number has already been stolen.

Data broker opt-outs are the second critical action. Services like DeleteMe or the manual opt-out processes at brokers including WhitePages, Spokeo, and BeenVerified can reduce the publicly searchable information tied to your child’s name and address. According to the FTC’s guidance on credit freezes, a freeze is the single most effective tool against new-account fraud for both children and adults.

Regular app permission audits are the third pillar. Review every installed app monthly and revoke permissions — especially location, microphone, and contacts — for any app that does not genuinely require them to function.

Key Takeaway: Placing a free credit freeze at all 3 major bureaus (Equifax, Experian, TransUnion) is the most powerful single action to prevent child identity theft. The FTC confirms freezes stop new-account fraud completely when properly applied to a minor’s file.

Frequently Asked Questions

At what age should parents start thinking about digital security for their kids?

Digital security for parents should begin before a child ever touches a device. The moment a child’s name, photo, or data is shared online — including by parents on social media — a digital footprint begins forming. Formal account security and parental controls should be in place from the first device use, regardless of age.

Can I freeze my child’s credit to prevent identity theft?

Yes. All three major credit bureaus — Equifax, Experian, and TransUnion — allow parents or guardians to freeze a minor child’s credit file for free. This prevents any new accounts from being opened in the child’s name. It is the single most effective preventive measure against child identity theft.

What apps are most dangerous for children’s data privacy?

Apps that request location, microphone, and contacts access without functional necessity are the highest risk. Gaming apps, social platforms, and free productivity tools are the most frequent offenders. Review every app’s permissions in your device settings and revoke access that isn’t strictly required.

How do I know if my child’s data has already been stolen?

Request a credit report in your child’s name from all three bureaus. If a report exists for a minor who has never held a credit account, that is a strong indicator of identity theft. You can also search your child’s name on data broker sites like Spokeo to see what personal information is publicly listed.

Is it safe for children to use public Wi-Fi?

Public Wi-Fi carries significant risks for users of all ages — login credentials, browsing data, and session tokens can be intercepted on unsecured networks. Children should use a VPN on any public network, or default to mobile data when available. Our article on digital security on public Wi-Fi covers the key risks and mitigations in detail.

What is COPPA and does it actually protect my child?

The Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act (COPPA) requires websites and apps to obtain verifiable parental consent before collecting personal data from children under 13. In practice, enforcement is inconsistent and many platforms use age verification methods that are easily bypassed. COPPA provides a legal baseline, but it does not replace active parental oversight and regular privacy audits.

MO

Marcus Oyelaran

Staff Writer

Marcus Oyelaran is a certified cybersecurity analyst and former penetration tester with a decade of hands-on experience protecting digital infrastructure for enterprises across finance and healthcare. He holds a CISSP certification and regularly speaks at regional security conferences about emerging threat vectors. At Digital Reach Solutions, Marcus breaks down complex security topics into actionable advice for businesses of all sizes.